Discover your desire. Discover your curiosity.
Some fantasies do not begin with an action, but with a thought. A question. A special feeling, or the wish to learn something about yourself that may so far have remained hidden.
The world of BDSM can fascinate, arouse curiosity and at the same time raise uncertainties. What is really behind it? What possibilities are there? And how do you find out what suits you or your relationship?
That is exactly what our introductory session is for.
In a relaxed, protected and personal atmosphere, we would like to bring this special world closer to you. Without expectations, without pressure and above all without the feeling of having to prove anything.
Because play does not come first.
First come curiosity, trust and the courage to ask questions.
Knowledge can be read. Experience has to be understood.
It has never been as easy to find out about BDSM as it is today.
On the internet you will find countless articles, explanations, videos and personal accounts. Even artificial intelligence can now answer many questions, explain terms and make connections easy to understand.
All this knowledge has its value.
But it cannot replace one crucial thing: the personal encounter.
The honest conversation with people who know this world not only from books, but have lived in it themselves for many decades – gathering experience, recognising mistakes, learning about limits and developing their own views again and again.
Because BDSM does not consist of techniques, rules and possibilities alone.
It is about sensations. About expectations and uncertainties. About the special dynamic between people. About trust, responsibility and sometimes feelings for which you cannot find the right words at first.
A text can explain what surrender means.
But how it feels for a person, why it touches them and what responsibility the other person carries – that often only becomes clear in a personal conversation.
Knowledge conveys possibilities. Lived experience gives them depth.
And it is exactly this personal depth that we would like to share with you.
Two people. Two sides of the same passion.
What makes our introductory session special is not only the experience we have gathered over many decades.
It is also the fact that we know BDSM from different perspectives.
Dominant and submissive. Active and passive. Leading and entrusting yourself. Taking responsibility and consciously placing responsibility in the hands of another person.
We know both sides of this special coin – not from hearsay, but from our own lives.
This allows us to look at questions and situations from different angles and explain to you what can happen on both sides of such an encounter.
What does the person who leads feel?
What moves the one who surrenders?
Where does trust begin? What responsibility arises from it? And why can the same act have a completely different meaning for two people?
We are not trying to present any particular distribution of roles or way of life as the right one. Everyone has their own story, their own wishes and personal limits.
Rather, we want to help you understand these differences.
And because you meet two people with us who have been exploring both sides of this passion for many years, you may benefit from both experiences.
Two perspectives, many decades of experience and the shared conviction that true passion always begins with respect.
What awaits you in our introductory session
Our introductory session is deliberately theoretical. There are no practical exercises.
First, we would like to give you an understanding of the world of BDSM and explore together the topics that interest you most.
Among other things, we talk about:
- The basics of BDSM and the differences between its various forms
- Dominance, submission and the meaning of different roles
- Trust, consent and personal limits
- Responsibility, safety and health aspects
- How a session is structured and prepared
- The importance of communication and mutual understanding
- Toys, aids and their responsible use
- The emotional sensations and special dynamics that can accompany BDSM
Not everyone brings the same questions.
Perhaps you have already gathered a lot of information and finally want to talk about it with experienced people. Perhaps a very particular fantasy is on your mind. Or perhaps you simply want to understand, to begin with, what lies behind this fascinating world.
We respond to you very personally.
Because our introductory session does not follow a rigid textbook. Your curiosity, your questions and your wishes help decide where our conversation leads.
For you alone or for the two of you as a couple
Our introductory session can be booked either alone or together as a couple.
If you come to us alone, this time belongs entirely to your personal questions and thoughts. Perhaps you want to understand yourself better, place a particular inclination or find out what role BDSM could play in your life.
We give you the space for that – openly, respectfully and without any judgement.
As a couple, you may set off together on a special journey of discovery.
Often we know surprisingly little about the thoughts, longings or fantasies the person at our side carries with them. Sometimes all that is missing is the right moment to talk about them.
Our introductory session can create exactly this moment.
We want to encourage you to talk with each other, to listen to each other and perhaps to discover sides of yourselves or of your partner that have so far hardly found any room.
At the end, there does not have to be anything at all that you would like to try afterwards.
Perhaps you will simply take home a new understanding of each other.
And sometimes that alone is a very special experience.
Personal, open and with plenty of time for your questions
Before your visit, we send you a few short questions. They help us get to know your level of experience, your interests and any uncertainties a little better.
This way we can prepare for you and make our time together as personal as possible.
On the agreed day, we welcome you in a relaxed atmosphere. Over a drink, we first get to know each other before diving together into the topics on your mind.
As a rule, we take about 1.5 to 2 hours for this.
You may ask anything that is on your mind.
There are no wrong questions and no reason to be ashamed of an inclination, an uncertainty or your own inexperience.
Over all these years, we have met the most varied people, ways of life and personal stories.
What still accompanies us today is one simple conviction:
You do not have to want to experience everything yourself in order to understand and respect it.
And after the introductory session?
Perhaps you will drive home with new thoughts.
Perhaps a conversation you have long wanted to have with each other will already begin on the way home.
Or perhaps you have booked the Masterroom so that you can be entirely on your own afterwards.
In that case, your booked time in the apartment only begins after our introductory session together. So you do not lose a single minute of your private time.
We then withdraw discreetly and leave you your personal space.
What you make of the impressions you have gained is entirely up to you.
Because it is not about experiencing as much as possible. It is about finding your own way.
Duration and prices
Our theoretical BDSM introductory session usually lasts about 1.5 to 2 hours.
| Offer | Price |
|---|---|
| Introductory session for a couple in combination with a Masterroom booking | 375 Fr. |
| Introductory session for one person | 450 Fr. |
| Introductory session for a couple | 550 Fr. |
By prior appointment, the introductory session can also take place without booking the Masterroom.
Our guests' experiences
We are always particularly touched by the personal feedback from people who dared to take their first steps into this world together with us.
Some came full of curiosity, others with uncertainties or very personal questions.
What many of them share is the experience that openness, trust and an honest conversation can often achieve far more than you would first expect.
For reasons of discretion, we publish their feedback anonymously and in their own words – which is why it appears in its original German.
Read experiences of the introductory session
Sometimes it does not take more courage to experience something new. At first, it only takes the trust that you may talk about it.
We look forward to getting to know you and sharing a little of our experience, our passion and our understanding of this special world with you.
Warmly
Malou & Comitor
